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jbsegal-you have a lot of friends (both on and off LJ) -- how do you choose to spend time with the ones you see a lot? (or do you see any of them frequently?))
I've had a hard time over the past years picking things to do out of a list of choices. Thus, I mostly see people when someone else has made the plans, or when there's only one thing to do.
This is FAR from ideal. I'd love to fix it.
-just how into BDSM are you, anyway?
Fairly. It's not _mandatory_ for a satisfying relationship, but it's pretty present in my thoughts a lot of the time.
-what is one interesting thing you're planning to do in the next month?
Hm. I have no idea.
-how much do you actually like concerts? do you like the whole scene (crowds, hearing music with other people, huge amplifiers, etc.), or do you go mainly to see/hear the people performing live?
I really like them. Live music can be a transcendent experience. It can also just be a lot of fun. I love the energy of a psyched performer with a good crowd. That, of course, demands an audience. That said, often the rest of the audience gets on my nerves for failing to appreciate the music at hand. As well, the people running the sound boards too often feel that, if it's not at 11, it's not any good. This is of course bullshit. If I ever open a venue that has live music, I think I'll call it "It goes to 5". :)
-where might one go to see a JB that isn't intimately involved with squaredancing? :)
A party - most likely when there's only one on that date. A pre-arranged meeting place/time. At home, in front of a least 2 different input sources.
-have you ever taken a myers-briggs test? do you believe that such things have any merit whatsoever?
I have. The real, copyrighted, original one, even. Unfortunately, I don't remember what I got and the results are at home. I'll update this later. I do think there's some value in them, especially in terms of interactions with others.
-what are the top three things you care most about (things, not people! :)?
Hurm. Hard to say. I spend most of my time with music, dancing, reading. I care about civil rights, the environment and such, but rarely do anything much about it. This is a failing of mine.
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I've had a hard time over the past years picking things to do out of a list of choices. Thus, I mostly see people when someone else has made the plans, or when there's only one thing to do.
This is FAR from ideal. I'd love to fix it.
-just how into BDSM are you, anyway?
Fairly. It's not _mandatory_ for a satisfying relationship, but it's pretty present in my thoughts a lot of the time.
-what is one interesting thing you're planning to do in the next month?
Hm. I have no idea.
-how much do you actually like concerts? do you like the whole scene (crowds, hearing music with other people, huge amplifiers, etc.), or do you go mainly to see/hear the people performing live?
I really like them. Live music can be a transcendent experience. It can also just be a lot of fun. I love the energy of a psyched performer with a good crowd. That, of course, demands an audience. That said, often the rest of the audience gets on my nerves for failing to appreciate the music at hand. As well, the people running the sound boards too often feel that, if it's not at 11, it's not any good. This is of course bullshit. If I ever open a venue that has live music, I think I'll call it "It goes to 5". :)
-where might one go to see a JB that isn't intimately involved with squaredancing? :)
A party - most likely when there's only one on that date. A pre-arranged meeting place/time. At home, in front of a least 2 different input sources.
-have you ever taken a myers-briggs test? do you believe that such things have any merit whatsoever?
I have. The real, copyrighted, original one, even. Unfortunately, I don't remember what I got and the results are at home. I'll update this later. I do think there's some value in them, especially in terms of interactions with others.
-what are the top three things you care most about (things, not people! :)?
Hurm. Hard to say. I spend most of my time with music, dancing, reading. I care about civil rights, the environment and such, but rarely do anything much about it. This is a failing of mine.
(This set of questions was actually anonymous. None of the rest were.)
(Ask questions here.)